What you need to know about Romance Scams

Millions of people turn to online dating apps or social networking sites to meet someone. But instead of finding romance, many find a scammer trying to trick them into sending money. Romance scammers create fake profiles on dating sites and apps, or contact their targets through popular social media sites like Instagram, Facebook, or Google Hangouts. The scammers strike up a relationship with their targets to build their trust, sometimes talking or chatting several times a day. Then, they make up a story and ask for money.

The Lies Romance Scammers Tell

They’ll often say they’re living or traveling outside of the United States. We’ve heard about scammers who say they are

  • Working on an oil rig
  • In the military
  • A doctor with an international organization

We’ve heard about romance scammers asking their targets for money to

  • Pay for a plane ticket or other travel expenses
  • Pay for surgery or other medical expenses
  • Pay customs fees to retrieve something
  • Pay off gambling debts
  • Pay for a visa or other official travel documents

Scammers ask people to pay

  • By wiring money
  • With reloadable cards like MoneyPak or gift cards from vendors like Amazon, Google Play, iTunes, or Steam

How to Avoid Losing Money to a Romance Scammer

If you suspect a romance scam

  • Stop communicating with the person immediately.
  • Talk to someone you trust, and pay attention if your friends or family say they’re concerned about your new love interest.
  • Do a search for the type of job the person has to see if other people have heard similar stories. For example, you could do a search for “oil rig scammer” or “US Army scammer.”
  • Do a reverse image search of the person’ profile picture to see if it’s associated with another name or with details that don’t match up – those are signs of a scam.

Here’s the bottom line – never send money or gifts to a sweetheart you haven’t met in person. If you suspect that you are the victim of a romance scam, please contact Bank of New Hampshire immediately at 1.800.832.0912 or chat with us online at BankNH.com.



Credit: Federal Trade Commission